Bleurgh. Thinking about what to write. Seeing too many interpersonal relationships degenerate over one person wanting to be right at all costs. Technically they are but ethically, not so much Why can't we just live and let live? Why do people get enjoyment out of others having to capitulate to keep the peace?it's very short lived. I think the next issue and insecurity resurface quickly. I wish they world wasn't this way. That the meek didn't have to rise up uncharacteristically to defend themselves. They would much rather avoid confrontation. But if won't go away despite your best attempts at appeasement and it starts to affect those in your care that are more vulnerable, then your hackles rise(whatever they are) and your instinct to keep your head below the parapet is over ridden.